Why You Should Get Married in Hawaii
Let’s face it: Hawaii is already an icon in the world of destination weddings. With its pristine beaches, breathtaking natural beauty, incredible wildlife, and rich cultural significance, it’s no wonder that couples everywhere have it at the top of their wedding wish list. We’re not just hopping on the bandwagon here—we’re here to remind you why Hawaii truly is the GOAT (Greatest Of All Time) for destination weddings.
We recently took a trip to Hawaii (and can’t wait to spill the beans about it in another blog post soon) to see firsthand what makes this place so special. Spoiler alert: we were blown away! We’ve gathered plenty of inspo and can’t wait to share all the reasons why you should tie the knot in this paradise.
From the best spots to say “I do” to the must-do activities once you’re there, we’ve got you covered. Plus, since Hawaii is part of the USA, you can skip a lot of the legal headaches that come with international destinations. Oh, and we know you have a ton of questions, so we’ve included a handy FAQ at the end with all the answers you need.
First, let’s dive into the basics: why is Hawaii the perfect destination for your wedding?
Top 5 Reasons Why Hawaii is The Perfect Destination For Your Wedding
Natural Beauty and Incredible Wildlife
Hawaii is a nature lover’s paradise. From stargazing under some of the clearest skies in the world to exploring volcanoes, marine life, whale watching, and lush tropical botanicals, Hawaii’s natural beauty is unparalleled. You’ll find historic locations, stunning cliffs, and serene rivers—all the perfect backdrops for your wedding photos.
Good Weather Year Round
Forget about checking the weather forecast every five minutes. Hawaii has pleasant weather all year round, making it an ideal spot for your big day, no matter what seasons. Check out our tips below in the FAQ on what time of the year is best to get hitched in Hawaii.
There’s Something for Everybody To Do
Whether your guests are adventure seekers, or prefer to kick back and relax, well, they can do it all in Hawaii. There really is an activity for everyone there—adventure lovers can hike, surf, and snorkel, while those looking to chill and lounge can enjoy the beaches and spas.
Easy to Get Married There—It’s Still in The USA!
As part of the USA, getting married in Hawaii is much easier than flying internationally. Besides a few pieces of paperwork, you really shouldn’t have any problems getting married here and it will make your life just that much easier. You won’t have to navigate complex international marriage laws! According to the State of Hawaii, 17,704 people tied the knot in Hawaii wedding venues in 2019, including nearly 900 same-sex couples. This gorgeous state welcomes all!
It’s a Top Honeymoon Destination Too
Why plan two trips when you can have your wedding and honeymoon in the same beautiful place? Hawaii is also one of the top honeymoon destinations in the world, offering literally everything from romantic getaways to adventurous excursions, making it the perfect two-in-one location.
Pro-Tip: You might even save some money in the long run by having your two-in-one wedding and honeymoon adventure!
Where Should You Get Married in Hawaii?
Let's talk about the venue and where in Hawaii you should get married. After all, there are 137 islands in Hawaii, and it might get overwhelming deciding which one is perfect for your big day. But don’t worry—we’ve done our homework and visited as many of these islands as we could. We’ve narrowed it down to our top five favorites and are highlighting the best venue in each. Check it out:
Maui
Best For: Couples Looking for the Quintessential Hawaiian Experience.
Maui is one of the most popular islands in Hawaii, and it’s not hard to see why. With its incredible views of the coastline, lush gardens, and year-round great weather, it’s basically a paradise tailor-made for your wedding day. Whether you’re an adventure junkie or just looking to kick back with a cocktail, Maui has something for everyone. And let’s be real, who wouldn’t want to start their forever in a place that feels like a perpetual vacation?
Pro-Tip: If you’re looking for someone to help you throw an epic party, check out our girl Natalie at Bespoke Wedding & Event Design. They really know how to turn it up in Maui!
✨Venue Highlight ✨: Andaz Maui at Wailea Resort
Any reality TV lovers out here? Fun fact: ‘Temptation Island’ was filmed here, so you know it’s got to be good. Luxurious villas, stunning pools, palm trees galore, and 15 beachfront acres that will make your jaw drop. Andaz Maui is not just a venue; it’s an experience.
First off, the food here is next-level amazing. If you and your boo are foodies, you’re going to be in heaven with the premium cuisine and cocktails. Plus, there’s direct beach access for those dreamy sunset pics. Oh, and did I mention the villas? You get to stay in these swanky, newly renovated rooms where the curtains automatically open to reveal the ocean. Talk about waking up in paradise! It’s super modern, totally Instagram-worthy, and will have you saying, “OMG, we’re in Maui!” from the moment you arrive.
Whether you’re bringing the whole family or planning a romantic honeymoon stay after your wedding, Andaz Maui at Wailea Resort is the place to be. It’s not just a wedding venue; it’s a vibe. So, get ready to create those unforgettable memories in one of the most beautiful spots on Earth!
Big Island (Hawaii Island)
Best For: Couples Looking For Hikes, Volcanoes & Adventure Options.
The Big Island, officially known as Hawaii, is basically the heavyweight champion of the U.S. Islands. It’s nearly twice the size of all the other Hawaiian Islands combined, making it a land of endless possibilities. With sprawling beaches, lush rainforests, and an ever-changing volcanic landscape, it’s like a choose-your-own adventure book come to life. If you decide to tie the knot here, your guests will have no shortage of things to do. Plan a cool expedition for the thrill-seekers in your wedding crew—Volcano National Park is home to two active volcanoes as of 2024: Kilauea and Mauna Loa. And if snorkeling is more your style, you’re in luck. The underwater sights here are just as breathtaking as the ones on land.
✨Venue Highlight ✨: Mauna Lani Auberge
Ready for some serious beauty? Mauna Lani Auberge is situated right along the Kohala Coast, in the spiritual heart (or “piko”) of Hawaii’s five great mountains. This venue has 32 oceanfront acres of sheer gorgeousness.
For accommodations, Mauna Lani has nailed the perfect blend of contemporary comfort and natural beauty. Every room has a balcony overlooking either the mountains or the ocean—yes, even the guest rooms! With bright decor, hardwood finishes, natural fabrics, and stunning textures, everything here screams “soulful Hawaiian escape.” And for those bringing the whole gang, their luxury suites are spacious enough to host your extended family and friends comfortably.
Want something more private? The private residences are secluded yet conveniently close to the resort. They come with a separate arrival, gated driveway, and private beach access. Each residence features 4,000 sq ft of indoor and outdoor living space, including a private swimming pool and spa.
But wait, there’s more! Mauna Lani offers a ton of fun experiences for your guests so you could really get the most of the Big Island. Whether it’s water sports, beach clubs, bonfires by the beach, surfing, golding, or simply chilling with a Mai Tai at the bar, this venue has something for everyone. It’s perfect for soaking in the luxury and laid-back vibes of Hawaii.
Kauai
Best For: Couples Looking For The Most Beautiful Beaches.
If you’re a nature lover with a taste of adventure, Kauai is calling your name. Known as the ‘Garden Isle,” this island is basically nature’s greatest hits album. With dramatic cliffs and lush landscapes straight out of a picture book, it’s a dreamy backdrop for your most perfect destination wedding. Fun fact: Kauai’s epic scenery is so iconic it’s starred in blockbuster hits like Jurassic World (2015), Pirates of the Caribbean: On Stranger Tides (2011), Soul Surfer (2011). If you crave adventure and jaw-dropping scenery for your destination wedding, Kauai is where it’s at!
✨Venue Highlight ✨: Grand Hyatt Kauai Resort and Spa
Ready to live your best life with white sand, luxury beachfront access, and lush gardens? The Grand Hyatt Kauai Resort and Spa has you covered. Picture this: acres of pools (yes, plural) with ocean-view dining, bars, private lanais, and stunning spas. You can even go hot tub hopping! We’re not kidding—this place is a dream. We find ourselves daydreaming about it the moment we leave. It’s beautiful, serene, and perfect for both adventurers and romantics.
For your big day, you can pick from six jaw-dropping event spaces: two gorgeous gardens, a lush lawn with ocean views, a garden near a saltwater lagoon, and even a bayfront spot. The views? Spectacular. The dining? Next level, with a cultural twist that will leave your taste buds dancing. There’s something for everyone, making your wedding unforgettable for all your guests.
Kauai is more than just a wedding destination; it’s a place to create epic memories with your loved ones. When you think of travel and those moments that make your heart skip a beat, Kauai is where adventure and beauty collide to create pure magic. So, why not say “I do” in this tropical paradise?
Lanai
Best For: Couples Wanting An Intimate, Less Touristy & Exclusive Wedding Experience.
Lanai is the best island for an exclusive and intimate wedding experience. It’s like the VIP section of Hawaii’s islands, offering a serene and luxurious escape. On its northern side, you’ll find Shipwreck Beach, famous for the offshore wreck of a WWII tanker and stunning views of Molokai and Maui. The northwest has a long, secluded Polihua Beach, where green turtles love to hang out. If you’re lucky, you might even spot humpback whales off the shore. Inland, the Garden of the Gods offers a lunar landscape of rock towers and boulders, perfect for those unique wedding photos.
In a nutshell, Lanai is perfect for couples who want to avoid the tourist crowds and enjoy a more private celebration. This island is more quiet, with a laid-back vibe that allows you to fully relax and soak in the beauty around you.
✨Venue Highlight ✨: Four Seasons Resorts: Lanai Hotel
On Lanai’s southeastern coast sits this five-star, five-diamond gem. It’s close to some of the island’s most scenic spots, best explored by foot. Lounge by lagoon-style pools, stroll through botanical gardens, get pampered at Hawanawana Spa, and dine cliff-side at NOBU LANAI. Adventure and relaxation? You get both!
The resort is pure luxury and tranquility. Spacious rooms with private lanais offering stunning ocean or garden views. Whether you’re sipping a cocktail by the pool or enjoying spa treatment, every moment at the Four Seasons will be unforgettable.
Pro-Tip: Stay longer and get your fifth night for free (valid if you book through selected dates). It’s perfect for extending into your honeymoon!
Oahu
Best For: Couple Looking For a Blend of City and Nature.
Oahu, known as the “Gathering Place,” is where city excitement meets natural beauty. If you want a wedding that’s got a little bit of everything, this is the spot for you.
Home to Hawaii’s bustling capital, Honolulu, Oahu is packed with things to do and see. Explore historic Chinatown, check out the Punchbowl, and don’t miss Waikiki with its iconic beach, dining and nightlife. History buffs, you’ll love Pearl Harbor and the USS Arizona Memorial just west of Honolulu. It’s like a giant history book and tropical paradise rolled into one.
✨Venue Highlight ✨: Prince Waikiki
Right in the heart of Honolulu, Prince Waikiki is absolutely jaw-dropping with some great spaces for both your ceremony and reception. Their wedding packages are the real deal, covering everything from the venue to decor and your champagne toast.
Also, you’ll absolutely love that every suite has an oceanfront view. Yep, every single one! Wake up, draw the curtains, and voilá—paradise! The rooms also have sleek interiors, think calming coastal color palettes, fancy touches and floor-to-ceiling windows.
With its blend of city life and natural beauty, Prince Waikiki offers the perfect setting for an unforgettable wedding. Go for it—go golfing, get a massage, or just lounge by the pool. Enjoy yourself in this stunning paradise!
Everything You Need to Know About Having Your Destination Wedding in Hawaii
You ask, we answer! Here are the top questions couples have about tying the knot in the stunning state of Hawaii.
❓Can you just get married on a beach in Hawaii?
Absolutely! but you’ll need a Right of Entry permit. The State of Hawaii requires this for beach weddings. For more information, check out the Wiki Permit Beach Locations page.
❓How many people can be at my beach wedding in Hawaii?
There’s no state-wide limit, but keep these points in mind:
Permits: Public beaches require a permit from the Department of Land and Natural Resource (DLNR). The permit might set a guest limit to keep things from getting too crowded.
Beach Size and Location: Capacity depends on the beach. Smaller beaches might have stricter limits.
Local Regulations: Each country has its own rules. Check with local authorities or your wedding planner.
Resort or Private Beach: Resorts or private venues have their own rules and limits.
❓What is the best month to get married in Hawaii?
Hawaii’s weather is gorgeous year-round, but April, May, September, and October are prime. Here’s why:
Less Crowds: These months are outside peak tourist seasons, so venues and beaches are less crowded.
Lower Costs: Fewer tourists=better deals.
Avoid Hurricane Season: Hurricane season runs through June to November, and the months of April, May, Sept. and Oct. typically see fewer storms.
Blooming Flowers & Scenery: The lush, vibrant landscapes are perfect during this time of year (prime backdrops for photos).
❓How much does it cost to have my destination wedding in Hawaii?
According to The Knot’s 2019 Real Weddings Study, the average cost of a wedding in Hawaii was $32,900, which is slightly below the national average. Costs for plane tickets and hotel reservations can vary depending on the time of year, so keep that in mind when budgeting.
❓What do I need to get married in Hawaii?
Here’s the lowdown if you’re from the USA:
Marriage License:
Apply online through the Hawaii State of Department of Health.
Appear together in person before a marriage license agent.
Bring valid photo IDs and pay the marriage license fee (about $65).
Age Requirement: both parties should be over the age of 18.
Officiant: choose a licensed officiant recognized by the state of Hawaii.
Ceremony Location: choose your venue and get permits if needed (if public).
Post-Ceremony: your officiant will file the marriage certificate.
❓What are some Hawaii dupes?
If you want Hawaii vibes on a budget, check out St. Lucia or Costa Rica. Both offer stunning scenery, lush landscapes, and a tropical paradise feel without breaking the bank.
Your Destination Wedding in Hawaii is Waiting For You!
And there you have it—everything you need to know before you tie the knot in Hawaii. From our favorite islands and venues, to FAQs, we’re sure you’ve already decided that Hawaii is the best place on Earth by now. And, we’re beyond excited to send you off to this dream destination. With its rich culture, stunning scenery, amazing venues, luxurious escapes, spas, and endless activities, Hawaii is a nature lover's paradise and a lounger's dream!
Ready to start scouting local vendors, venues, and tasting menus? We’ve got your back. I recently took a trip to check out some of our favorite Hawaiian venues firsthand, and let me tell you, it was an adventure. I’ll be sharing all the juicy details soon—tips, tricks, and everything you need to know about getting down and dirty in Hawaii. But, if you want to hear it first hand, give us a call.
So, what are you waiting for? Pack your bags, grab your sunscreen, and we’ve got the rest. Aloha 🌺.
Courtnie is the founder & CEO of TravelBash. After years as an ambitious fundraiser, she took her passion for travel full-time. She has lived all over the U.S. and abroad and after planning her own destination wedding, she decided to help other couples plan their big day abroad too. She has written “Passport to Paradise: The Complete Destination Wedding Guide,” a top seller on Amazon. She has also been featured in Travel + Leisure, Destination I Do and The Washington Post. As a certified travel advisor, expert event planner and natural connector, she uses her powers to create VIP travel experiences.
