What is A Babymoon?
First things first — congratulations 🎉👶🍼!!! You’re about to welcome your little miracle into the world, and what better way to savor this moment than with a one-of-a-kind babymoon? It’s the perfect excuse to escape, relax, and indulge into some “you” time before life gets wonderfully hectic. Whether you’re looking to be pampered, celebrated, or take a moment to simply unwind, a babymoon is the last chance for you and your partner to enjoy some pre-parenthood in peace.
So, let’s answer some of the most popular questions we get about planning the ultimate pre-baby escape!
What is a Babymoon and Why Are They so Popular?
A babymoon is basically a honeymoon for soon-to-be parents — a relaxing, romantic getaway before the baby arrives. It’s a chance to enjoy some quiet time together before the chaos of diapers and sleepless nights hits.
Babymoons started gaining popularity in the ‘90s because, let’s be real, once the baby arrives, your chances of spontaneous vacations are slim to none. So, going on a babymoon is your chance to have fun with your bae, whether you’re heading off to a beachside resort or booking a quiet staycation close to home.
The idea is simple: relax, recharge, and make the most of your time before the endless diaper changes begin.
Who Should Go On a Babymoon?
Are you about to have a baby? Then you, my friend, need a babymoon. Whether you’re already starting to feel the weight (literally) of parenthood or just want a mini-escape before the sleepless nights kick in, a babymoon is your perfect excuse for some guilt-free relaxation. You deserve it, seriously.
Why You Should Consider a Babymoon
Parenting is amazing, but let’s not kid ourselves — it’s going to be wild! Say goodbye to sleep, alone time, and spontaneous getaways for the next, oh, decade or so. That’s exactly why a babymoon is the perfect escape. It’s your chance to sneak away for one last peaceful getaway.
Here are five reasons why you should go on a babymoon:
Quality Time with Your Partner: savor some precious moments together before the baby arrives.
Get Pampered & Indulge in ✨Self-Care ✨: take advantage of prenatal massages, spa treatments, and all the self-care you deserve.
Lower Stress & Relax Before the Chaos: recharge and unwind to help ease any pre-baby anxiety.
Celebrate the Transition to Parenthood: mark the milestone with a special trip dedicated to you and your bae!
One Last Adventure: take one last chance to travel without the added complexities of bringing a baby along!
When’s The Best Time to Go On a Babymoon?
You can technically go on a babymoon at any point during your pregnancy, but most soon-to-be-parents find that the second trimester (around 14-27 weeks) is the best time to go. By then, you’re usually past the morning sickness phase, but not yet at the point where everything is uncomfortable.
The second trimester is your sweet spot—travel is easier, and you’ll still have the energy to enjoy yourself without feeling too exhausted.
How Long is a Typical Babymoon?
Babymoons come in all shapes and sizes. It can be a quick weekend getaway to a nearby spa or a full week of bliss in an exotic location. The length really depends on what you’re comfortable with and how much time you want to relax before the baby comes.
If you’re thinking of flying somewhere far, consider adding an extra day or two so you can recover from the trip. If you’re staying closer to home, a long weekend might be all you need to get that recharge.
Best Places to Babymoon
There’s no one-size-fits-all when it comes to babymoons — whether you’re craving a sunny beach, a mountain retreat, or a cozy spot nearby, the goal is to keep it low-key and stress-free. Consider travel time: How long is the flight? Will you and your partner be comfortable for that long? Sometimes, a destination within driving distance is the perfect solution.
If you need a little inspiration, here are some of the most popular babymoon spots right now:
Staying Domestic
Hawaii (Maui or Kauai): Tropical paradise, perfect for sun, sand and relaxation.
Palm Springs, California: A desert escape with luxury spas and poolside lounging.
Sedona, Arizona: Serene red rock landscapes and peaceful vibes for a nature-filled retreat.
Key West, Florida: Laid-back island life with beautiful sunsets and beachy relaxation.
Charleston, South Carolina: Southern charm with great dining and cozy boutique hotels.
Aspen, Colorado: A winter wonderland with cozy cabins and snowy mountains.
Santa Fe, New Mexico: Artsy and serene, perfect for a cultural escape with wellness retreats.
Going International
Santorini, Greece: Romantic sunsets, whitewashed buildings, and stunning ocean views.
Maldives: Overwater bungalows and crystal-clear waters for the ultimate luxury escape.
Reykjavik, Iceland: Northern Lights, and breathtaking landscapes for the adventure couples.
Banff, Canada: A scenic mountain escape with nature trails and luxurious resorts.
Bali, Indonesia: Lush landscapes, peaceful temples, and incredible wellness resorts.
Queenstown, New Zealand: Gorgeous lakeside scenery and peaceful mountain views.
Tulum, Mexico: Boho-chic beach vibes with stunning resorts and eco-friendly luxury.
Don’t let the idea of traveling internationally during pregnancy intimidate you! With a bit of planning and some travel-savvy tips, you can still have a comfortable and enjoyable trip abroad. Reference this handy government page for pregnant travelers advice before you commit.
⚡Pro-Tip: For comfort on the plane, wear compression socks to help with circulation, opt for a seat near the aisle to make movement easier, and pack a small travel pillow for extra support. With these simple tips, long flights can be a breeze.
Does a Babymoon Have To Be Expensive?
Absolutely not! Your babymoon can be as simple or extravagant as you like. If a luxury resort in Hawaii isn’t in the cards, no worries—sometimes a quick road trip and a couple of nights at a cute bed and breakfast nearby is all you need to feel refreshed.
The goal isn’t to break the bank (you’ve got a baby on the way, after all!), but to relax and enjoy each other’s company. And hey, if you do feel like going all out and treating yourself to a Beyoncé-level babymoon, go for it! Just remember to mention you’re celebrating a babymoon when booking hotels or restaurants — you might score some extra perks!
Tips For a Smooth Babymoon
Planning a babymoon doesn’t have to be difficult! Here are a few tips to keep it stress-free:
Check for babymoon packages at resorts — they might include prenatal massages or special amenities.
If traveling internationally, check travel restrictions. Safety first, especially with a baby on board.
Talk to your OB-GYN before you book anything. Let them know your plans and get the green light to travel.
Stay hydrated and keep moving if you’re flying. Airplane air is dry, and it’s a good idea to stretch your legs to avoid swelling.
Park smart. Think comfy clothes, earplugs, eye masks, and any prenatal vitamins you might need.
A babymoon is your last chance to truly unwind before your little one arrives, so make it count. Whether you’re soaking up the sun at the beach or enjoying a cozy weekend at a nearby retreat, this is your time to relax, bond with your partner, and get excited about the adventure ahead.
If the idea of planning sounds like one more thing on your to-do list (because let’s be real, you’ve already got plenty on your plate), we’re here to help! Let’s make sure your babymoon is everything you need — minus the stress.
Editor Notes: This post was originally published on November 21, 2017, and has been completely revamped and updated for accuracy, comprehensiveness, and relevance.
Courtnie is the founder & CEO of TravelBash. After years as an ambitious fundraiser, she took her passion for travel full-time. She has lived all over the U.S. and abroad and after planning her own destination wedding, she decided to help other couples plan their big day abroad too. She has written “Passport to Paradise: The Complete Destination Wedding Guide,” a top seller on Amazon. She has also been featured in Travel + Leisure, Destination I Do and The Washington Post. As a certified travel advisor, expert event planner and natural connector, she uses her powers to create VIP travel experiences.